Saturday, February 26, 2011

alone with everybody

the flesh covers the bone
and they put a mind
in there and
sometimes a soul,
and the women break
vases against the walls
and the men drink too
much
and nobody finds the
one
but keep
looking
crawling in and out
of beds.
flesh covers
the bone and the
flesh searches
for more than
flesh.

Sunday, February 13, 2011


Reading Marita

Marita
Please find me
I am almost 30.

-Leonard Cohen

Cohen etched this poem on the wall of a restaurant in Cyprus during the late 1950's. He wrote it in response to a woman who had rebuffed his advances several years prior by telling him to "come back when you're 30". Cohen was punctuating this awkward late 20s phase - he was stuck between his adolescence and maturity, scrawling his life on a wall.


Oh, how we ascribe our own meaning.

Genève

All my fantasies about my upcoming summer distilled in a single photograph:


Saturday, February 12, 2011

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Hell's Angels

"All my life, my heart has sought a thing it cannot name.

Remembered line from a long-
forgotten poem."

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

such an earth that has no maps

"We die containing a richness of lovers and tribes, tastes we have swallowed, bodies we have plunged into and swum up as if rivers of wisdom, characters we have climbed into as if trees, fears we have hidden as if caves. I wish for all of this to be marked on my body when I am dead. I believe in such cartography - to be marked by nature, not just to label ourselves on a map like the names of rich men and women on buildings. We are communal histories, communal books. We are not owned or monogamous in our taste or experience. All I desired was to walk upon such an earth that had no maps."

The English Patient, Michael Ondaatje (source: milk-eyed-mender via youngteam)

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Gendered oppression exists on a spectrum. On one end: make-me-a-sandwich jokes. On the other: rape. All rest on the assumption that women ought to be passive objects existing to satiate male desire. Assertions like this might have me dismissed as hyperbolic and uptight, but fuck it. When 1 in 4 women have already been the victim of sexual assault by the time they enter their second year of university, maybe people dismissing my supposed hyperbole should actually give it some thought. Maybe gendered oppression is. actually. real. And maybe we ought to be a little more introspective about the role we're each playing in perpetuating it.

But I'll bet you a sandwich that no one will even comment on this post.